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It’s a little like what we call stranger on the train syndrome.
It’s easy to sit down with a total stranger and totally disclose.
It is not the case that sex offenders have migrated en masse to online dating platforms.
Instead, navigating new social rules introduced by the Internet is complicated.
And sometimes those misunderstandings occur over serious matters such as one person's desire to become physically intimate.
Self-disclosure in the real world operates at around 40 percent according to one study but increases to 80 percent once you go online. But it’s not a reality and you don’t know the person.
I want to position myself over here saying well it’s not so good. And what was really disturbing about that report is that 71 percent of these assaults took place on the first date and either in the home of the victim or the offender. So if you look more closely at the research as a forensic cyberpsychologist the thing that really disturbed me is that the offenders reported didn’t have the typical profile of a sex offender in that they didn’t have previous convictions and they didn’t have a criminal record.
And hopefully then we can meet in the center and have a balanced debate. A large number of them did not have a typical profile. Does it mean that sex offenders are now moving online to online dating forums to find victims more easily?
Her aim is not to tear down technology that has widened our social circles marvelously, but merely to balance what she calls "the army of marketers" telling us that cyberspace is good.
What is not good, says Aiken, or at least very different from normal behavioral, is how quickly we disclose personal details online.